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Your happiness should be dependent upon YOU and you only!

You have to become self reliant for positive emotions if you want to become GREAT at attracting men and attaining total fulfillment in life. Self reliance for happiness is one of the most critical aspects of social dynamics – I believe that it is a life skill that every woman should learn.


Most people’s lives are pretty mundane and boring – in general.

They may lead an interesting lifestyle for one week every year. And even that one week is pretty predictable for the majority of the population. As a result of this monotony, people have become dependent upon external sources for entertainment. These external sources include TV, computers, radio, mobile phones, the internet and so on. However, virtual entertainment alone is not enough to satisfy our emotional needs. We need and crave real interaction – humans are social animals, after all.

Most people lack the inner strength to create the life of their dreams.

They are unhappy with themselves, they don’t like their jobs, their financial situation is not particularly good, they do the same things over and over and interact with the same people every day. All this takes a toll on their emotional state – they are unhappy at their core. As a result, they look up to other STRONG individuals for hope, happiness and direction. These STRONG or the ALPHA individuals have the willpower and the determination to live life on their terms. They are committed to their personal goals – other people sense this and respect the ALPHAs and look up to them. Writers, celebrities, politicians, businessmen and managers are usually Alphas. They are placed well in life, they are extremely sure of themselves, they have a large social circle and they are respected and admired in society.

Become an Alpha WomanIn very simple terms – society is comprised of two types of people – leaders and followers.

Leaders have learnt to be self reliant for happiness. They have tremendous self belief and they create their own reality. They usually have a set of followers who are dependent upon them – just as a wealthy business person has many employees who depend upon him for their livelihood. I know that this article sounds more like a lesson in self improvement – but then, attraction is all about self belief, confidence, becoming the best version of yourself and so on!

Decide what kind of life you want to live and then start living it. Start loving yourself – commit to your ambitions. Become an alpha woman!

All this takes a lot of effort but then who said that finding true love was easy? Constantly keep pushing your limits – keep evolving as an individual. Keep becoming healthier, read good books, learn new skills, travel to new places, meet new people, develop a multidimensional, adorable personality!

I know that only a very small percentage of readers will practice what they just read.

Others will simply move on to the next page and hope for cheesy tips to attract men.

Which category do you belong to?

Do you want to be an alpha woman?

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Posted on May 16, 2014

About the Author

Deborah is the owner of this site, a dating and relationship expert and a wife and mother to a wonderful husband and two twin girls.