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I’m going to start this post off with 3 questions:

  1. Do you feel that you are not getting enough attention from men?

  2. Have the compliments dried up?

  3. Do you wish to be the woman that men lose sleep over?

Is your answer Yes?

Start with this video

7 Scientifically Proven Ways to Attract Men


We hope you enjoyed the video, we’ve got MORE juicy goodness for you below, 11 tips that will literally transform you into a man-magnet!

1) Know and believe that you are enough. You are adorable and any man who thinks otherwise does not deserve to be with you. Your breast size and other physical characteristics do not matter. Check out fashion models – have you ever seen one with humongous breasts? No! Do away with all your insecurities and take pride in who you are. No man is attracted to a woman who doubts herself.

2) There is a fine line between confidence and arrogance. While it is true that you are an amazing person and you deserve the absolute best, still that does not mean that you should stop striving to improve. Become your best self Man-Magnetand you will automatically radiate confidence and a positive vibe.

3) You will feel tremendously empowered if you pursue your hobbies and interests. Live your life with passion and don’t let minor failures discourage you. The hallmark of an ‘alpha female’ is that she is unapologetic about who she is and is not afraid to go after the things that she desires.

4) Always dress to impress!  Donate those out dated turtle necks and floppy pants and opt for something more fashionable and striking. Be naughty – Let those necklines plunge a bit and let the skirts ride high. Create a sexy, sophisticated look by choosing your colors carefully and dressing for your body type!

How to Attract Men

5) Don’t go out in large groups. Believe it or not, Men are intimidated by large groups of women. You chances of being approached will go up dramatically if you are alone or with just a friend or two.

Satanic earings and smile :)6) Smile: Women are under this stupid and utterly deluded impression that they should keep a very straight face and look ahead while they walk around. This is downright idiotic and contradicts what you are trying to achieve. Sure, cat-walking with an expressionless face makes you feel like you a model and makes men think that you are unattainable and ‘out of their league’. However, being out of men’s league is not much fun if you are lonely and depressed! Encourage a man to approach you by giving him a sultry, genuine smile!

7) Don’t be afraid to initiate small talk if you have to. If you are standing at a bar and you like the guy standing next to you, don’t wait too long for him to notice you. Just a simple comment like – ‘you smell nice’ is enough to start an engaging conversation.

Love yourself, so others love you. Believe in yourself, so others believe in you. Respect yourself, so others respect you. In short, the way you treat yourself sets standards for others.8) Respect yourself: Don’t accept free drinks from men whom you have just met. Pay for yourself – this indicates that you are independent and self-sufficient. Men hate gold diggers and they will treat you with great respect once they find out that you don’t care about their money.

9) Be nice to guys: Understand that it takes a great deal of courage to approach a woman. So be nice to guys who walk up to you and refuse politely if they are not your type. Use the classic boyfriend objection if you have to. Don’t confuse being nice with not having a spine. Stand up for yourself if you have to but don’t act bitchy just because it gives you an ego boost!

10) Be witty and have a sense of humor. If you wish to win a man’s heart, then he must find you stimulating – visually as well as intellectually.

11) Play a little hard to get! The key to attracting men is to go one step forward and then two steps backward. Chase him for a bit and then withdraw. Let him work for you. If you want men to want you, then make them invest time and energy in the relationship.

12) Want more? If you’re really sincere about finding “the one” and making him see you for the wonderful woman than you are, I just read this GREAT book by Claire Casey last week called “Capture his Heart and Make him love you forever” – I really think you’ll like this. You can learn more about it by clicking here.

About the Author

Deborah is the owner of this site, a dating and relationship expert and a wife and mother to a wonderful husband and two twin girls.

2 Responses to “How To Attract Men – 11 steps you can use right NOW”
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  1. Jenny Coyle says:

    I think respecting yourself is more important than women realize: they tend to brush the idea off, thinking ‘Of course I respect myself, what are you talking about?’ But it’s complex: you need a healthy self-esteem, and all the things that come with it. This will lead to the other aspects of attracting a man – you’ll be smiling all the time if you’re genuinely happy with yourself!

  2. Thanks Jenny – great advice 🙂

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