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Categories: Get your Ex Back

OK, so you want your ex-boyfriend back.

Well that is understandable but just make sure that you want him back for the right reasons.

Do you really want him back because you love him or do you want to ‘take revenge’ on him for dumping you (or vice versa) ?

Does he even deserve to be with you? (Or do YOU deserve to be with him?)

If yes, then here is what you should do.

How To Get Your Ex-Boyfriend Back

As ironic as it may sound, if you want to get your ex-boyfriend back, then you must first go out and meet some other men.

This allows you to accomplish two things:

You get in touch with your true feelings for your ex. Do you really miss him that much even though you are surrounded by other handsome men?
Being taken out by other men makes you feel wanted and desired again. This gets rid of neediness and gives you a huge confidence boost.

Get a physical and mental makeover!

  • Start living your life with zeal and passion.
  • Do the stuff that you have always wanted to.
  • Start crossing things off that bucket list – go on a vacation, pursue a new hobby.
  • Be with people who make you feel great.
  • Pick a new wardrobe for yourself – shopping cures most, if not all problems in life!  🙂

The idea is to become emotionally independent and self-reliant so that even if things do not work out between the two of you, you will have evolved into a much better person. I know that this seems very contradictory, but your chances of getting back with your ex go up exponentially if you do not NEED him. There is a big difference between wanting and needing. Neediness conveys scarcity and hence it is a huge turn off for both men and women.

Do not contact your ex for a few days – do not interact with him in any manner – no facebook, no texting, no tweets, nothing at all. This gives him a chance to miss you. However, making him miss you is not the sole aim of breaking contact. There is a much more important reason for doing so – staying out of touch and then coming back with a bang allows you to make a significant impact. You get to overwrite your old self with a better, more confident and more attractive image. Your boyfriend begins to see you in a new light; he begins to perceive you differently. You are no longer the same girl that he broke up with; you are now totally awesome!

Start by keeping things casual. Send him a casual text, possibly something more interesting than ‘hey, what’s up?’ (Click here for EXACTLY what to say to him). Do this a few times and then get him to do something that is low pressure and non-committal such as hanging out for a drink or going to a party hosted by a mutual friend. Once you start interacting with him in person, then you just have to follow the basic rules for attracting any man. (You may insert link to another article or product) Focus on having a good time and do not get into serious discussions about the relationship. Just act as if you are on a first date and take it from there!

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About the Author

Deborah is the owner of this site, a dating and relationship expert and a wife and mother to a wonderful husband and two twin girls.

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