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I can imagine how desperate and frustrated you must be feeling right now,

having to turn to the internet for advice on saving your relationship,

hoping that there is a webpage somewhere that might hold the key to your happiness.

Well, I am not going to claim that this is the webpage that is going to put an end to your problems – that is for you to decide.

I am certainly not going to judge you as I have been in your situation before and know exactly how you feel.

What I can say is that I have helped hundreds of couples to get over the problems in their relationship. So there is a good chance that you too might benefit from my experience. 🙂

How to Text the Romance Back

I don’t know exactly what your problems are.

However, I have developed a simple plan of approach that everybody can follow, yes – anybody.  🙂

Essentially, there are 3 stages of reconciliation

1) Analysis: Take some time to sit down with your man and reflect. What exactly went wrong? Try to identify the root cause of your problems. I know that it can be painful to go over the things that have gone wrong in the past. But do it anyway. It is imperative that you (and your partner) are not passive aggressive at this stage. You will notice a significant improvement in your attitudes towards each other if you simply have a heart to heart conversation.

How to Save a Relationship

2) Action: Now that you know what your problems are, you must take actions to tackle them effectively. This period usually requires you to keep your cool and to give your partner time and space to adjust.

3) Restoration: This is the phase where you bond once again. You are encouraged to be romantic and to perform loving gestures like buying each other gifts, kissing like teenagers and so on.

The above mentioned plan is very logical but it’s also NOT complete.

It lacks one VERY important ingredient that is critical to your success which is recreating attraction. You should definitely discuss and address your problems like grown ups. However, love is not an outcome of logical reason but rather of emotional attraction. So if you want to recreate love, then you have to focus on appealing to the emotional side of your man’s brain. A man will do anything for the woman he loves.

To put it simply, every relationship consists of good emotions and bad ones.

The relationship starts going sour when the bad emotions begin to outweigh the good. The easiest way to fix this problem is to start giving your man good emotions once again. Do this for a bit and then pull back, he will automatically be drawn towards you and will want to be with you.

Be the girl that he fell in love with. Do the things that you did during the initial stages of your relationship. Break free of the negativity that is holding you back and inject happiness and joy into your life. STOP NAGGING YOUR MAN AND SEDUCE HIM INSTEAD. You will notice that it is very easy to get him to comply with your demands if he is attracted to you.

Many women make the mistake of thinking that attraction is just something that happens once. They stop trying to attract their man after a certain stage in their relationship. You have to understand that attraction is a continuous process. I have several articles on how to create attraction on this website, Feel free to go through them – some of my readers say that my methods work like witchcraft! 🙂

One final thing, Have you thought of romantic text messaging?  They’re almost a SURE fire way to get some positive vibes going.

Try Sending a “Curiosity Magnet” text like you learn in “Text The Romance Back” (I did a full review of it here and give some example texts here as well.)  This is GREAT training for those who want to learn how to text better, or want to re-kindle the romance in their current relationship and I HIGHLY recommend it!

Posted on Feb 3, 2014

About the Author

Deborah is the owner of this site, a dating and relationship expert and a wife and mother to a wonderful husband and two twin girls.