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I couldn’t stop laughing when I came across this topic being searched for online.

Seriously, love spells that work? I mean, I don’t want to judge you – I know how frustrated and depressed relationship problems can make you feel. But what you need to understand is that the solution to your problems lies not in love spells, but in learning how attraction works and applying this knowledge. 

Love Spells that Work

We women tend to be highly emotional and this makes us susceptible to emotional manipulation.

Some of us become so fixated upon the fantastic results that these ‘love spells’ promise us that the logical part of our brain literally freezes. The people that sell these spells know that women seeking solution to their relationship problems are usually desperate, emotionally drained and will do anything to make their relationship right. Hence, they exploit these poor women by guaranteeing impossible results.

I really wish that these spells worked, they would have certainly made my job much easier! However, l am very sorry to inform you that love spells DO NOT work. Attraction is an established science; it is not governed by witchcraft or astral energies or whatever other fancy name you want to call it. As unromantic as it may sound, love is caused by certain hormones that the body releases and not by some magical spell or potion!

If you want to attract men, then stop relying on hocus pocus strategies – these are excellent if you want your heart and your pocket to remain empty! Instead, take responsibility for your actions, learn about attraction and strive to improve as an individual. When your car malfunctions, you go straight to a mechanic – you don’t rely on the magical powers of the universe to fix your car. Similarly, when you fall ill, you go to a doctor. You don’t visit a shaman in order to have your illness cured! So now that you are experiencing relationship problems, why are you resorting to phony and bogus measures instead of tackling the situation sensibly?

It is true that nobody teaches us about love. In school, we learn physics, algebra, history etc. but there are no lessons concerning social dynamics and attraction. Most adults (including our parents) have no clue about how to attract a person of the opposite sex. The media teaches us that we cannot be attractive to others unless we are filthy rich, powerful or look like a supermodel. All this misinformation leads to ambiguity, insecurity and uncertainty – ultimately making us feel hopeless and desperate. Swindlers prey upon this kind of mentality!

They misuse our confused state and try to sell us worthless charms, potions and spells. I know you have read somewhere that the universe has infinite energy and that you can channel this energy to create the things that you desire. There are many theories that state that you can literally think your way to happiness, riches and even love. I too am a big believer in positive thinking but positive thinking alone is not going to help you. You need to study if you want to pass your exams – positive thinking doesn’t help if you don’t study. No amount of positive thinking is going to put money in your bank unless you work on creating some sort of income source. You may win the lottery but you still need to buy the ticket!

It is very hard to me to explain the principles of love and attraction in one article but if I had to sum it all up in one line, I would say – Learn to love yourself and if you want others to love you! This website has plenty of in depth information about attraction and relationships – some of the techniques illustrated here work better than these so called love spells. So feel free to look around. You can start by watching this free presentation on how to make a man fall in love with you!

Posted on Feb 14, 2014

About the Author

Deborah is the owner of this site, a dating and relationship expert and a wife and mother to a wonderful husband and two twin girls.