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Sorry Ladies – I need to put my on Scientist Hat for This one

Cheating BoyfriendMen cheat because of one simple reason – They are instinctively polygamous! Yes, believe it or not, it is true! On the contrary, we women are monogamous. Why is this so? Why is there such a radical disparity between the sexes? Well, you see, nature does not care much about your emotions; its topmost priority is the survival of the species as a whole (sorry, that’s my minor in Science showing lol).

If you really stop and think about it, you will realize that a man’s sense of self worth is closely related to the amount of women that are attracted to him. Men who have been with many women are considered to be macho – they are respected by other men and are desired by women. (Examples – Tom Jones, James Bond, Indiana Jones, Captain Jack Sparrow etc)

On the other hand, women who have many sexual partners are frowned upon and considered to be ‘sluts’. They are despised by other women and as well as men. This is because a woman’s ‘natural role’ is to stay devoted to her family – this is essential for the survival and the well being of her children.

Why do Men Cheat?

A woman absolutely hates it when a man cheats on her because it creates competition for her own children. A man hates when a woman cheats on him for the exact same reason. I know that all this sounds very crude and even barbaric to an extent but it is the naked truth – the same patterns are observed in almost all other species of animals.

As we humans evolved into a more complex society, most men were compelled to settle for just one sexual partner because having many wives was not financially feasible. Thus, only very powerful men such as kings and emperors had several wives (harems). Philosophers, politicians, religious leaders and social reformers also realized that promoting the concept of ‘marriage and family’ was necessary for maintaining social stability. Thus, they began to pass laws that prohibited committing adultery. Even the bible and almost all other religions regard cheating to be amoral and impious. However, despite being subjected to social, legal and religious pressure for several centuries, men have still not been able to embrace monogamy completely. The desire to have sex with many women remains very firmly ingrained in their DNA!

I know that this information is very depressing but don’t let it bother you too much as there is a way around all this. Men’s brain releases a chemical known as oxytocin – you can call it the love chemical. Oxytocin ensures that a man remains devoted to his woman and protects her and their mutual offspring. In other words, men do have the capability to love and they actually care about family.

Make Him Love youHowever, they don’t remain devoted to simply any woman; they must feel love for that woman. Even doctors and scientist have concluded that men are most likely to cheat when there is an emotional disconnection between the couple. So the bottom line is that men do not cheat purely because it gives them an ego-boost, they do it because they don’t feel a strong emotional connection to their wife/girlfriend. A man who loves and who is thoroughly satisfied with the relationship is very unlikely to cheat.

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Posted on Dec 10, 2013

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Deborah is the owner of this site, a dating and relationship expert and a wife and mother to a wonderful husband and two twin girls.

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